OK, so you had a sexual encounter and ended up getting a non-curable BUT treatable disease. Lets look at this realistically...
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1. YOU ARE HAVING CASUAL SEX WITHOUT PROTECTION YOU IDIOT!!!! So much for no strings eh????
2. Even if you had used a condom, it would only REDUCE the chances of contracting it as it is a skin to skin thing, AND a fluid thing.
3. Symptoms of Herpes show themselves in 7-14 days, it's been a month, are you sure it was her? Could have been your girlfriend/wife who you are cheating on, could be you had it already and being with her triggered an outbreak...or maybe the stress of your guilt triggered it.
4. Many people who have herpes exhibit NO or extremely minor symptoms keeping them from getting diagnosed (every body reacts differently to the virus). She may not have known she had HSV (herpes simplex virus).
5. Which type of herpes did you get? HSV1 or HSV2--oral and genital respectively. Regardless, you can obtain instances of Oral Herpes on your genitals and vice versa.
6. Many people think herpes is only spread when there is an outbreak present. Although one is MORE likely to spread it during this time--there is such a thing called Asymptomatic (that's right without symptoms) Viral Shedding.
7. At least you were smart enough to go see your doctor...it is believed that somewhere around 20% of all men and 25% of all women have HSV2, whereas something like 80% of thepopulation of the US has HSV1...THAT'S RIGHT 1 of every 4 of your buds has it too!!!! And many of them don't even know it!!!!
8. The difference between the 2??? The viruses are nearly identical, except for the location and manner of how they manifest themselves in the body...AND the stigma that follows genital herpes, conversely oral herpes...oh it's just a kanker/cold sore--I got too much sun, I have been stressed--it'll go away. Guess what? Stress, and sun are factors in outbreaks for HSV2 also!
9. Don't go labeling people, when it is you who are out there whoring yourself out to any woman who will have you. Oh that's right, I forgot there exists a double standard between men and women having sex. My mistake. (screw that, take some responsibility). Chances are (if in fact she gave it to you) she got it from someone who knew they had it and didn't tell. Maybe she was on an "I hate men kick" as a result and you became the unwitting recipient of her wrath. How's the saying go? "...a woman scorned"
10. Certainly you are angry, you are stressed, your sex life is over--or is it? Go through the grieving process, forgive yourself and her and move on. Ask your doc about Valtrex, Acyclovir, Valcyclovir, Famvir etc. Find out which is best for you. Chances are your doctor doesn't know ANYTHING about herpes except that he can't cure you. Seek out a doctor who does! Do some research. Reach out and ask for advice from someone who's been there. BUT PLEASE OH PLEASE, don't forget to tell potential lovers that you have it--remember the golden rule! Do unto others...
Yes, I have it, which is why I lurk on here scoping out everyone's kinks and masterbating myself into an oblivious stupor at the thought of them, and sharing them with the men I've dated (some of whom have and some of whom do not have HSV--but they ALL know I do), my friends etc.
If you are out there and YOU HAVE HERPES there are sites and social groups that cater to you!!!! I have met some of the best friends I will ever have in life through these sites, give them a try!!!
VAFriends group on yahoo groups
If you are looking in another geographical area for social groups email me I can help you find what you are looking for!!! If you want to get involved in the social group in the DC metro area, email me, I can bring you out to an event.
You came over almost a month ago and gave me a nice blowjob and fuck. Now i come back from my doctors and I fucking have HERPES.
Beware guys shes a short blond- she looks very clean and professional - not much to look at but a huge rack - this bitch isnt worth it!
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