Originally Posted: 2003-04-12 4:07pm
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Warning! Long post! More info is better, isn't it? ;-)

short version: Experienced, real, MbiF ISO smart/sane fun bi woman for whatever works including lifetime LTR.


I'm a passionate, successful entrepreneur, mentor, spiritualist, technology geek and personal development/freedom junkie. If you're into astrology at all (I am a little) I'm well described as a Leo-Leo. My friends would tell you that I'm a lot of fun at a party, though I'd rather be on a quiet strip of beach any day. With little prompting they'd tell you that I care deeply for them and that I've got it together, though I know how flaky I can be. They'd also tell you that I can be pretty domineering and controlling, though I think I do it from love, and they'd be right. I'm passionate about everything I do/think/feel or I don't bother with it. If you're into physical descriptions -- which I'm not... I truly believe that inner beauty is the most important -- I'm attractive (some tell me beautiful {g}) with a slightly overweight but still nice, size 8/10, "Marilyn Monroe-esque" 44-33-41 figure. My real(!) 38DDD breasts compensate for a lot! I'm definitely Pacific-Islander looking. I'm 37, a non-smoker, drug/disease free and enjoy the rare glass of champagne. No kids (can't have my own) though I enjoy most kids' company. I've been married to the man of dreams for ten years but, he's still a man... and I learned a long time ago that I am definitely bisexual. I also prefer to have sex a lot more often than he does. My goal is a lifetime "nest" of 5-11 people though at this time I'm looking for a woman to include as a long term triad or V. I've been in both before and I personally think a loving supportive triad is an amazing structure!

PLEASE NOTE: I am in a legal marriage and we have been practicing polyamory for the last 5+ years. We just ended a triad and are actively looking for a new triad or quad/nest partner. Jealous lesbians need not read further! Just know I wish you success in your search. :-)

Part of life's pleasures include great sex, great food, sexy conversation, interesting ideas and feeling really good... all of which I hope to do with you. I value honesty, determination, intelligence, creativity, personal development and persistence. I am a serious student and sometime teacher of metaphysics. I enjoy travel, good conversation, music, food and books; dancing, hanging out and generally I do only that which I think is fun, or that makes me/those I love happy. Fortunately I have the means to do that. I also travel a lot and am looking forward to relocating to Vegas June 2003. Want to join me?

Looking for:

I'm really looking for a woman who wants to become everything wonderful she knows she's capable of, even if she doesn't show that to others. (And she is willing to change herself or do whatever it takes to get what she wants.) She'll enjoy many of the same activities that I do, and is always willing to try something or go someplace new. (I'm looking for women over men because first, I'm completely mattriarchally focused and second because you can always train one of the good decent men without too much bother.)

I truly believe in a polyamorous life, going after all the joy, glorious pleasures and personal dreams that are out there to be had. My *ideal* woman is ambitious, sexy, smart, well-rounded, attractive, determined, mature, open-minded, self-aware and willing to be unconventional. She is also 22-48 who is asian, hispanic or caucasian. Other preferred qualities include being ambitious, bisexual, talented, dynamic, dog and kid lover, libertarian, and asia-phile. You must be committed to honesty, truth, acceptance, growth, open-ness, mental, spiritual, emotional and physical fulfillment/connection and to be unfolding your true self, whoever that may be. However, if you smoke, are an alcoholic in training, use drugs, have or are at risk for any STDs, are semi-literate or don't like to use English, have big cultural hang-ups (about your culture or mine), hate reading and learning, and/or only want to be friends long enough to have sex with an experienced woman with big tits... I wish you luck in your search. Though I can appreciate you as you are, I am not the one you're looking for.

Are you dramatic, adventuresome, self-aware, joyseeking, someone who loves to read, eat good food and travel; intelligent, open and enjoy the beach/lake/water? Are you also a woman with a voluptuous -- curvy and healthy -- figure, who enjoys your body and the sexual pleasure you're capable of? That's the type of woman I'm looking for.

Are you looking for and willing to be a part of, an incredible relationship, no matter how long it lasts? Then what are you waiting for? If this (mostly) describes you write me NOW! Tell me about you, how you match what I'm looking for and what you're looking for. A picture would be great too.


Ideal WOMAN - I'm really looking for a woman who wants to become everything wonderful she knows she's capable of, even if she doesn't show that to others. (And she is willing to change herself or do whatever it takes to get what she wants.) She'll enjoy many of the same activities that I do, and is always willing to try something or go someplace new. Ideally, eventually, I'm looking for a female life partner -- have you read Daphne Kingma's "The Future of Love"? -- because I believe in a polyamorous life, going after all the joy, glorious pleasures and personal dreams that are out there to be had. My ideal woman is ambitious, sexy, smart, well-rounded, attractive, determined, mature, open-minded, self-aware and willing to be unconventional.

However, if you smoke, are an alcoholic in training, use drugs, have or are at risk for any STDs, are semi-literate or don't like to use English, have big cultural hang-ups (about your culture or mine), hate reading and learning, and/or only want to be friends long enough to have sex with an experienced woman with big tits... I wish you luck in your search. Also if you look and act like a little girl and need/want to please "your man," You really should keep looking Though I can appreciate you as you are, I am not the one you're looking for.

Are you dramatic, adventuresome, joyseeking, someone who loves to read, eat good food and travel; intelligent, open and enjoy the beach/lake/water? Are you also a dark haired woman with a voluptuous (which means curvy and healthy) figure, who enjoys (or really wants to enjoy) your body and the sexual pleasure you're capable of? Are you looking for and willing to be a part of, an incredible relationship, no matter how long it lasts? Then what are you waiting for? If this (mostly) describes you write me NOW! Tell me about you, how you match what I'm looking for and what you're looking for. A picture would be great too.

Notes:


1) If you're a man or part of a couple looking for a third, I wish you luck as you keep looking.
2) if you're a woman trying to "figure out" if you're bi/les... please don't write me. I'm not into head games and TV talk show dramas in my relationships.
3) If you're looking for cyber sex or picture exchange please keep looking. I have only G/PG pics to share until we voice verify. I expect to talk on the phone and meet in a public place *soon* if we're at all compatible.)
4) woman means one of that gender born with a vagina. period. Simple criteria.
5) I am an experienced bi-sexual female, who has been in triad and V relationships before. This is not a new thing I'm "trying." Serious replies/queries ONLY please.
6) I have the means to support another woman in the fulfillment of her dreams and am comfortable with someone who dreams of being a housewife and caretaker/support of a loving poly family (because I'd really love to have kids though I can't have them of my physical body) OR you want to be a big executive who likes the fact that we have a full time housekeeping staff... it's a dream we're creating together. Let's live it, shall we?
7) Finally, if my upcoming move is an issue for you and you have no big attachment to here (and you'd like to move to Vegas), please don't worry about the expense, finding a job, etc... if we're compatible I am more than willing to do what it takes to keep you a part of my/our new family.


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