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Mango - Attractive Femme with Blond Bun and Glasses - w4w

2008-11-23T12:33:25-08:00

You were wearing a green and white shirt standing by the jukebox talking to some friends. I couldn't take my eyes off you.

I was the dark haired butch near the pool table.

Let's meet for drinks and stimulating conversation. ;)

Looking for Danielle - m4w (dublin / pleasanton / livermore) 26yr

2008-11-23T12:07:57-08:00

I'm looking for Danielle.
About 5'2 tall, 125 Lbs, blong hair. You posted some ads in CL in another section and then stopped.
Please contact me with your picture.

Thx

Bookish guy�I should've said Hi at the Farmer's Market this morning - m4m (downtown / civic / van ness) 27yr

2008-11-23T11:48:01-08:00

Hey-

You seemed to be checking me out at the Farmer's Market. I was carrying books, & looking a little confused. I always get stupid & shy when I think someone might be flirting with me, & I lamed out. I wish I hadn't.

i looking sex - m4w (santa clara) 25yr

2008-11-23T11:45:43-08:00

if you are woman please send me a mesange ok

RE: such language so early is not my style

2008-11-23T11:37:26-08:00

I just want someone excited about me. And hell yes its me me me. Its been you you you and nothing happened. Atleast me me me would include you and lose MC.

24 HR San Carlos - m4m (san carlos) 24yr

2008-11-23T11:32:21-08:00

Does anyone know the name or story of the really hot guy that checks you in at 24 HR in SC? He's tall muscular, dark blondish, killer bod, hot face. He's usually working till 10P or 11P in the front desk.

F*** YOU!!!

2008-11-23T11:29:34-08:00

This stalemate is YOUR CHOICE! not MINE! I DID MY PART! WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU?!! ADMIT THAT YOU SUCK AND LET ME GO! WHERE DO YOU GET THE CRAZY IDEA THAT THERE IS ANYTHING I AM AFRAID TO DO????

-M

RE; Nope

2008-11-23T11:25:07-08:00

I quit pretending that weeks ago. I was pretending to salvage what you let go of. And I must say pretending you were my boyfriend was far more enjoyable.

And last week I quit pretending you would answer the phone on Saturday or Sunday. That would make the phone call both bothersome to me and you.

Communication thru missed connections. Ironic sattire at best.

Cap/Aborn Starbucks - m4w (san jose east) 34yr

2008-11-23T11:21:13-08:00

I get coffee here often; see your smiling face and listen to your cheerful voice asking me about "things", mostly small talk. Your amazing smile is the only reason I go to this particular store (so many in the area). Just thought I'd throw my thoughts your way ......

Temple on Saturday November 22 - m4w

2008-11-23T11:21:09-08:00

I lost you my dear, a lovely mixed black cutie in a black cocktail dress, after we danced together a while Saturday night at Temple. In addition to having a fabulous, smoking little body, you know how to have a great time and make friends, which puts you right eligible to be with me any time. It could be big fun to hear from you and get together again.

Taller than you caucasian, tell me the color of my hair and what you were wearing on your forehead. Thanks for the times.

no resolution to this thing - m4w (sinking ships)

2008-11-23T11:11:50-08:00

It's been almost a year and we're no closer. In fact we're much further apart. I still want to tell you everything. But you've chosen disconnection instead of our missed connection. I will respect your desires to stay - keep apart. But I won't ever understand them. Goodbye then. You are everything to me. And always will be.

If you ever need me... just call and I will be there. I miss you so much sugar plumb. I know it's wrong but my heart doesn't lie.

Re: Stealing girlfriends... this is for you - w4m (napa county)

2008-11-23T11:02:22-08:00

Dear Loser,
I shall have your girlfriend whether you like it or not. Now stop whining about it and take it like a man
Sincerely,
your_girlfriends_soon_to_be_boyfriend

You said:
I was fucking right about you. Is this what you do whenever you get around a pretty girl? You move straight on in, bf or not, if the boyfriend isnt hanging out?

You are like, so soft...so soft that you dont see the way its wrong to do fucked up things.

You have a lot of nerve buddy. Since the moment i saw you...I knew you would try something. It was hard to believe. It was so hard to believe that i started to even think I actually was a fucking nut!

Ha. But i fucking knew i was right about you, and karma will intervene in your life now. You think i dont know almost everything about your kind? You think that just because a pretty nice girl comes around that you can sweep her off her feet with all your nerdy-ass bullshit?

Guess what, you tried but i am so much smarter and cooler and hotter than you that theres no fucking way you would be able to keep up with whats going on in that girls head. Ive broadened her mind. I picked her up out of some fucked up situations and helped her get her act together and back on her feet with her head high. You tried to talk about video games to her. I just want you to know that you are so...emo. Such a fucking fairy bastard. You look like a fat peice of shit also...dirty, really. Dirty bastard...Play some more video games that ought to help you out in the love department. What a fucking bore u are really...

Girls dont want mr sensitive. Mr i never listen to anything but emo...the only girls that want emo guys like you, or fakers like you, are depressing and boring as you. Yeah its true that us guys have to listen to girly music around our girls sometimes, but appearing to be more girlish (as u do) is a major turn-off for many many women.
Oh sorry man,i might toss in a few tips since you obviously NEED some.

Why dont you realize that if you ever try to talk to her again in the same way that you wish you could ill find out? I will find out and we will have to talk face to face about the issue.

In your petty travels have you spent a straight year in a place where you have to fight a lot of bigger, buffer, scarred, meaner people? People who have done things no one else could possibly imagine to other human beings? I have. I got through it and I had to do things that i wish never to repeat. Ive stared a type of dark, pure rage in the face. I bet you never fought in your fucking life. You look like a total buttercup to me.

Im pretty fucking sure that you are going to read this, and i just want you to know that i will know. I will find out if you whisper to her form across the room. You dont want me to know.

Money wont buy you anything btw. Not what youre looking for. Maybe if you wanted some of what youre looking for you could start by realizing that anyone in a relationship is off limits. Thats a nice start...do you follow? I really wonder if you can even take in that logic because i have no idea how many awesome girls who have bf's that you have tried to get down with...or WISHED u could. I wonder if you ever had someone so pissed off at you for something that you thought you were so sly about. There's some good people in napa, but you are pure napa trash and i hope you find yourself with someone soon so you can ignore everyone else's girl...although anyone you found would probably be fat and dorky like you of course.. (sigh) fuck, it might not be possible for you to change buttercup. You mihgt just always want what you can never get...unless you change now.

You tried to ruin my life. A person like me doesn't really appreciate that very much. Dont fuck up again buttercup. Ultimately you will be a better person who women would (gasp) actually want if you just listened to my advice and believed me about how serious this kind of fucked-up un-moral behavior, really is.

Nope...

2008-11-23T10:52:59-08:00

not doing it anymore sorry. If you want to know how I feel, call me and ask. I don't want to be your make believe lover. I'm getting a bit old to be wasting my time like this. You most likely won't call me, so goodbye.

-M

MM missed talking -your part - w4w (around)

2008-11-23T10:47:02-08:00

weren't you going to call me?

Kind Flight Attendent on AA flight to JFK 45yr

2008-11-23T10:36:10-08:00

You were sooooo kind to me on the flight to JFK. I was in coach. You poured me a few glasses of white wine. I wish I had asked for your number. : -(

man with pitbull puppy on 14 inbound Sat. night - m4m (mission district) 27yr

2008-11-23T10:33:18-08:00

you were the handsome man with the genuine smile. you had a worn out pitbull puppy with you. I wanted to catch your eye but the girl with the curly hair wouldn't even let you get a word in edgewise. you got off at 18th and disappeared.

I just wanted to let you know that both of you are adorable.

mind rot in a mad world (half moon bay)

2008-11-23T10:06:56-08:00

it's our major disconnect. why are you building into this online gaming industry, again? because you are disconnected from right and wrong for the FAMILY aka, our CHILDRENs future.
Go read this week's valley Metro. There's a ballerina in there that got her life back while there are others who lost theirs. Just like I lost mine for 4 years to your drivel.

I wonder about you. Rightfully so.

-someplace itchy (thanks?!)

Life is 2 short....... (santa cruz)

2008-11-23T10:03:10-08:00

Life is 2 short....
to never be hugged by you again.
to never be wrapped up with you, our bodies completely meshed together.
to never laugh with you.
to never be as close to someone as I am to you, even though we are apart.
to never look into your eyes while you are looking into mine and know you are my burnt soulmate.
Just getting feelings out, no intentions, just truth.
Life is 2 short, to not express how we truly feel.

Arastradero Cutie - m4w (palo alto) 25yr

2008-11-23T10:02:53-08:00

Yesterday while mountain biking in the Arastradero Preserve I saw a very cute runner (had a pink shirt on) so I stopped to rest at a a trail gate hoping I would get to talk with her. Sure enough, she ran up and we started to chat. She really seemed cool and smart (a lawyer) and said she hadn't been on the trail before. I proceeded to ask if she mountain biked at all? Road biked? trying to find some common ground to suggest a friendship and schedule a get together. At that point a few more people came through and she and I went off in our own directions with her saying "sorry I don't bike" as I took off in the opposite direction.

I'm sorry I didn't just ask you out... You don't have to bike and I don't have to run for there to be a connection. If you're still out there and want to do dinner or a hike (god I hope you hike!) then email me.

In case you don't remember, I'm ~5'10" blue eyes, work in high tech

Last night at Lucky 13 - m4w (alameda)

2008-11-23T10:01:19-08:00

To the woman who was in the middle of the battery incident outside Lucky 13,

I just wanted to give you my apologies for yelling, possibly at you. I was very heated at the moment given the circumstances of the situation. You did an honorable thing by remaining with the victim as long as possible. I'd like to talk to you a little bit, if you forgive me that is.

No hard feelings I hope.

Brendon/Brandon from Truck last night! glasses...cute - m4m (SOMA / south beach) 25yr

2008-11-23T09:59:54-08:00

Hey man, I dont know if you'll see this, but you were very cute! Short, glasses, tight little body. i think u were wearing a green tank top/wife beater. I didnt have a chance to talk to you much, but would love to have that chance, hit me up if you see this.

Orchard Coffee in Downtown Campbell Saturday night - m4w (campbell)

2008-11-23T09:59:40-08:00

you, a young cute nee beautiful girl working on your green apple laptop last night -- facing away from the band that was playing ... at 8.30pm or 8.45 pm. me, a taller guy in a red jacket sitting on the couch..we made eye contact innumerable times and you seemed interested in more? i was with a fried who was in a hurry to leave....are you intersted in meeting for a coffee?

WEEKEND rendezvouz

2008-11-23T09:57:14-08:00

The sweet aroma of the coffee brewing
With a bagel toast and a spread of cream cheeze
I reached out to hand your morning breakfast
With a hug and a kiss

Good morning babe
Wishing all this time
That we can share together
A blissfull love affair
Instead of being an mc

A private drive by the coast
Stopping by a nearby motel
With the view of the open coast
Tucked a couple of wine
And some marijane
Would be the most
Electrifying ecstacy
We can both share
For a weekend rendezvouz

Man smoking outsides Macy's O'Farrell - m4m (downtown / civic / van ness)

2008-11-23T09:53:29-08:00

Man smoking Sat. PM outside Macy's O'Farrell St. near windows with cats, we cruised each other, I was wearing green jacket, wear glasses. Looking good. Would like to hear from you.

"A" Street event - m4m (santa rosa)

2008-11-23T09:29:45-08:00

You were the good looking guy who introduced yourself to me. I gave you a cupcake . Wish I'd given you my number. Are you interested? Tell me what we talked about.

TO"HOW LITTLE" W4W - w4w (anywhere) 48yr

2008-11-23T09:14:03-08:00

Girlfriend,
You are one angry person...
If yow don't like the words on CL stay off the site.
Get a life, and get your big ass of the computer chair and exercise. You have any real friends to talk to,sounds like you unpack your baggage daily/ Don't flatter yourself that someone wants you

there is nothing anyone - w4m (Sf)

2008-11-23T08:44:04-08:00

including you can do to make me feel guilty or *wrong* for remaining *abstinent*.
It is my spiritual choice to refrain from that part of life. It doesn't affect me, as LOVE has always been more important and intimacy shared between two people (to me) is deeply psychological and reserved for commitment.

I don't and won't apologize for that;)=

Mike, did you feel it too? - w4m (santa cruz)

2008-11-23T08:43:20-08:00

I met you when I was with someone else....And I don't want to hurt his feelings....But...
I thought there was an instant attraction between you and I...
The way you looked at me made my excited and nervous
Did I read you right?
We bar hopped in Downtown Santa Cruz
You kissed my hand when we left
I told you something specific about the girl you were with...

I would love to have dinner or drinks with you...without our friends
Email if you are interested and tell me who you work for so I know its you.
I don't know how else to contact you....

Does anyone know if Kim Pham is okay (Houston) 61yr

2008-11-23T08:23:48-08:00

My name is Joel and i knew a lady named Kim Pham 8 years ago.She had a beauty shop on Taravel street named Sunset Beauty Care.She has a son named Michael and Hu.She has a daughter named Khan.I just would like to know if she is alive and well and okay.If someone knows of her,please get in touch.I'm going to keep posting,untill someone lets me know if she is okay,and i sure hope she is.I was married to her for a year.

This is for CP (not your name but my name for you) - m4w 52yr

2008-11-23T08:20:31-08:00

You onc told me NEVER pay for what you could give me. I am never sure if you wanted me to call you when I wanted it or if you would be mad at me for wanted that even if we can'thave the rest right now.
I want what you and I had but do not want to treat you like that. I cannot give you the rest right now and you know that.
I just want you to know that what we had was great. Better than what I will ever have again in a relationship.
But the physical was also great and I will never again know that kind of freedom or love or fun again.
Babe I think of you all the time, but I am thinking of the physical so bad and one thing in particular more than anything else. Well I guess it is more than one thing but I miss kissing you so bad and of course what always followed but babe the kissing ummmmmmm so wonderful.

I just wanted my CP to know.

Miles Apart (TOM D) (petaluma)

2008-11-23T08:08:28-08:00

Hello my LOVE. I know that you love me. Some days are just rough for me. It is hard to be so far away from you. Even though we were so many miles apart when we were near each other. I miss you and look forward to seeing you again. I am trying to grow up. It seems some days I fall short. I love you and MISS you sooo much. Always-M

Re: TITAN - m4w (santa cruz) 25yr

2008-11-23T08:05:39-08:00

Give it up girl you reek of desperation. Do you think TITAN really wants to contact some girl that A)made out with him without even exchanging names? and B)has been relentlesly stalking him on CL for weeks now. Here's an idea, you scared TITAN away. This is a small town I doubt that TITAN hasn't read or heard about your 500 attempts to contact him. Believe me everyone else knows about the TITAN whacko. So please scrape together any dignity you have left and move on. And TITAN if your reading this, RUN.

I gave you my ring at bootie - w4w (SOMA / south beach)

2008-11-23T07:55:34-08:00

I thought it might help with the break up but I wanted my opal ring back.
Please get it back to me.
I am the blond with with dancing boots on. You the red head that just broke up with her boyfriend.
I love that ring and was a drunken fool to take it off. I just wanted to help.

To Kalon - A Pound of Flesh (mission district) 115yr

2008-11-23T06:04:10-08:00

Go, dumb-born book,
Tell her that sang me once that song of Lawes:
Hadst thou but song
As thou hast subjects known,
Then were there cause in thee that should condone
Even my faults that heavy upon me lie
And build her glories their longevity.

Tell her that sheds
Such treasure in the air,
Recking naught else but that her graces give
Life to the moment,
I would bid them live
As roses might, in magic amber laid,
Red overwrought with orange and all made
One substance and one color
Braving time.

Tell her that goes
With song upon her lips
But sings not out the song, nor knows
The maker of it, some other mouth,
May be as fair as hers,
Might, in new ages, gain her worshipers,
When our two dusts with Waller�s shall be laid,
Siftings on siftings in oblivion,
Till change hath broken down
All things save Beauty alone.

Speeding down (up?) 280 - m4w 23yr

2008-11-23T05:16:37-08:00

Me: White GTI
You: White Rabbit

I was heading up to San Francisco with some buddies for a night of debauchery; you appeared to be doing something similar, except you decided to follow me for a good 20 mile stretch, even with my maniac driving style. Let me know if you want to go for a drive sometime ;)

181 (one And one ) and Happy Birth Day - m4w (downtown / civic / van ness) 30yr

2008-11-23T04:21:43-08:00

We met for minutes as you know I am from San Jose and It was your Birth Day today and U turned to sweet 24,
I kissed your hand , I offered you drink but bar was closed we decided to go downstair bar and I got missed U in crowd , I got away club as my friend was in rush !

So Angel do U want to give me a chance to celebrate Ur birthday
again in unique way ! I swear it would be special for U to remember !!

If you hit this pls Reply with all we talked and I know you are the ome!!

you hid from me on purpose - w4m (mission district) 28yr

2008-11-23T03:32:14-08:00

can't shake it, what the heck happened?

2 a.m. club, landscaper who could've had my heart. - w4m (mill valley) 31yr

2008-11-23T03:23:58-08:00

Yeah, I was interested, but you liked my friend K (maybe my sis). we have a lot in common, figured I'd try this, why the hell not...right?!?! ~M from Oregon

Tonight On Market 2 am, you Black pants, Black Jacket White Shirt... - m4w (downtown / civic / van ness) 25yr

2008-11-23T03:07:47-08:00

I saw you walking with your friends tonight, you were with another girl, we exchanged a glance that seemed to last forever. You caught me off guard, wish I would have said hello.... I was wearing a ble pea coat and khakis... Tell me where on market we were and i would love to hear from you...

Brian, sorry i missed out on you - w4m (san jose downtown) 26yr

2008-11-23T02:45:43-08:00

Hey handsome. I'm sorry we didn't go on our date tonight. I wanted to see you and spend time with you, after all of this. You've been so sweet & understanding with my work schedule and everything else. Even offering to drive out to see me for an hour. I know it's my fault...you're a great catch and some lucky lady is going to snatch you up and keep your forever.
i missed our soft slow kiss good nite

Saw u at the Lookout thursday night and walked up market with you - m4m (castro / upper market) 28yr

2008-11-23T02:42:01-08:00

We saw each other at the Lookout and then you left. I left a bit after you and we walked close to each other up market to castro street and kept looking at one another and we almost met up at castro and 18 but then I lost you. You were very handsome. I was wearing shorts and a gray sweatshirt. We should meet

To Pocahontas In JJ's Saloon: - m4w (santa cruz) 23yr

2008-11-23T02:34:02-08:00

You were with your friends. I am the boy in the blue jacket. We exchanged eye contact a few times.I felt sick after not talking to you and introducing myself to you. I am shy and that is my downside. To the point...I think you are the most beautiful woman I have ever laid my eyes upon, and from reading you, you are the type of woman I would consider to have as my wife someday. I doubt you will ever read this but if you do here I am.

El Farolito Friday Night. You: Striped sweatshirt. - w4m (mission district)

2008-11-23T02:21:44-08:00

I was standing behind you in line with my friends debating what to order. We ended up eating chicken quesadillas with you and your friend. You gave us the guy's perspective on some issues, and I thought you were witty. I was the one with the accent...

Rebel Girl- You're The Cutest Girl I've Ever Seen - w4w (San Francisco) 24yr

2008-11-23T02:19:50-08:00

You're brunette. You hopped up on the go-go stage briefly. I teased you about not doing your job. You were already claimed by blonde dreads- your gf?

You're the cutest girl I've ever seen. I'd love to tell you that in person. Good vibes girl, I hope we meet again

We rode BART together, you have the most beautiful blue/ green eyes - w4m (oakland north / temescal) 25yr

2008-11-23T02:10:01-08:00

We both got on at MacArthur BART station. You got off at Embarcadero. I kept staring at your beautiful eyes, but was too shy to say anything. You had your bike with you and were grooving to your ipod.

71 bus - w4m

2008-11-23T02:01:30-08:00

We exchanged a few glances/smiles. I would have started a conversation but was too shy and you were engrossed in your Ipod. I was the girl with tattoos on her feet...

amazingly beatiful brunette-latin descent - w4w (san jose downtown) 26yr

2008-11-23T01:34:48-08:00

last saturday 11/15: you pulled up in a uhaul truck w/ a bunch of guys, and from the moment you stepped out of the truck my eyes were locked on you. you are absolutely beautiful. you are a rocker chick, wearing chucks, with these cute ass jeans that had leopard print on the back pockets, and a green shirt. cute tats by the way. i was standing by a radio station tent. we made mad eye contact the whole time. if you read this drop me an email.

Brian! (berkeley)

2008-11-23T01:14:14-08:00

Brian. You checked your email and browsed missed connections at my house. You bemoaned the lack of people having missed their missed connections with you. So here I am, posting a missed connection. Not..that... no, we didn't miss a connection. But after you left I listened to Simon & Garfunkel, of all things, and sat, looking at the Christmas lights in room, wishing for the first time in a long time that I was stoned. Maybe you did miss out.

Shopper's Corner: I wanted Lentils, You saw only Baked Beans - w4m (santa cruz)

2008-11-23T01:08:42-08:00

Hmm, let's see, it was Thursday night I think, sixish...We were in whichever isle they keep the canned goods, and I was looking for lentils in my red hoodie and singing, and you, you were kneeling down to look on the bottom shelf. You said you couldn't see them either, just some baked beans. A few minutes later I think you passed behind me as I was balking over the directions for preparing the dried lentils I found elsewhere. One last time I saw you again over near the veggies, but lost sight of you when I was picking out a tomato. Oh, bother.

I wanted to tell you I liked your brown and orange stripey sweater and you look quite handsome in that hat. I was thinking maybe we could shop for dinner together next time.

Stealing girlfriends... this is for you - w4m (napa county)

2008-11-23T00:55:13-08:00

I was fucking right about you. Is this what you do whenever you get around a pretty girl? You move straight on in, bf or not, if the boyfriend isnt hanging out?

You are like, so soft...so soft that you dont see the way its wrong to do fucked up things.

You have a lot of nerve buddy. Since the moment i saw you...I knew you would try something. It was hard to believe. It was so hard to believe that i started to even think I actually was a fucking nut!

Ha. But i fucking knew i was right about you, and karma will intervene in your life now. You think i dont know almost everything about your kind? You think that just because a pretty nice girl comes around that you can sweep her off her feet with all your nerdy-ass bullshit?

Guess what, you tried but i am so much smarter and cooler and hotter than you that theres no fucking way you would be able to keep up with whats going on in that girls head. Ive broadened her mind. I picked her up out of some fucked up situations and helped her get her act together and back on her feet with her head high. You tried to talk about video games to her. I just want you to know that you are so...emo. Such a fucking fairy bastard. You look like a fat peice of shit also...dirty, really. Dirty bastard...Play some more video games that ought to help you out in the love department. What a fucking bore u are really...

Girls dont want mr sensitive. Mr i never listen to anything but emo...the only girls that want emo guys like you, or fakers like you, are depressing and boring as you. Yeah its true that us guys have to listen to girly music around our girls sometimes, but appearing to be more girlish (as u do) is a major turn-off for many many women.
Oh sorry man,i might toss in a few tips since you obviously NEED some.

Why dont you realize that if you ever try to talk to her again in the same way that you wish you could ill find out? I will find out and we will have to talk face to face about the issue.

In your petty travels have you spent a straight year in a place where you have to fight a lot of bigger, buffer, scarred, meaner people? People who have done things no one else could possibly imagine to other human beings? I have. I got through it and I had to do things that i wish never to repeat. Ive stared a type of dark, pure rage in the face. I bet you never fought in your fucking life. You look like a total buttercup to me.

Im pretty fucking sure that you are going to read this, and i just want you to know that i will know. I will find out if you whisper to her form across the room. You dont want me to know.

Money wont buy you anything btw. Not what youre looking for. Maybe if you wanted some of what youre looking for you could start by realizing that anyone in a relationship is off limits. Thats a nice start...do you follow? I really wonder if you can even take in that logic because i have no idea how many awesome girls who have bf's that you have tried to get down with...or WISHED u could. I wonder if you ever had someone so pissed off at you for something that you thought you were so sly about. There's some good people in napa, but you are pure napa trash and i hope you find yourself with someone soon so you can ignore everyone else's girl...although anyone you found would probably be fat and dorky like you of course.. (sigh) fuck, it might not be possible for you to change buttercup. You mihgt just always want what you can never get...unless you change now.

You tried to ruin my life. A person like me doesn't really appreciate that very much. Dont fuck up again buttercup. Ultimately you will be a better person who women would (gasp) actually want if you just listened to my advice and believed me about how serious this kind of fucked-up un-moral behavior, really is.

a ride from SF to berkeley.. - m4w (BART) 26yr

2008-11-23T00:49:41-08:00

we crossed paths sometime around 330, but i couldn't really find words. you were beautiful though.. something about black leggings. i dont know, its not even playing fair

you're starting to piss me off - w4m (santa cruz) 21yr

2008-11-23T00:22:42-08:00

...because I really like you(tbh I don't even know why but I do) and you keep fucking with my emotions. So can you please just be straight forward with me and let me know what is going on? PLEASE! I told myself I wasn't going to respond to your text (or any form of communication) but its way too hard because I just get so fucking excited that you're even thinking enough about me to send a message.

Let me know when you figure shit out. If you ever want to talk, I'm here.

Sideways - w4m

2008-11-23T00:18:39-08:00

You talked to my friend and held me sideways and I slipped my arm around and patted your back softly.

It was "whatever" to you. But I floated.

Lone Palm. Friday night. We closed the place down. - m4w (mission district)

2008-11-23T00:00:34-08:00

And we exchanged notes. Your idea. Mine, I believe, contained some kind of nonsense about...??? And a number. Yours said that you wouldn't ever love selflessly until you had children. Which I imagine is true for a lot of people. Still I loved your honesty and our talk. And I'd love to close discover a new bar together and close IT down, talk some more, walk you home. You were lovely. A true Taurus. My favorite. I'm Scott, by the way. Nice to meet you, Lisa.

Two hotties at the Opal Hotel - m4m (tenderloin) 31yr

2008-11-22T23:59:34-08:00

Saw you two boys as you were getting on the elevator......I could kick myself for not gettting on to......you boys had your mouths open pretty wide. If you see this hit me up and lets play! in room 326.....give a ring.

Sinbad's 7th Voyage at Oakland Kaiser tonight - m4w

2008-11-22T23:57:22-08:00

This is to the lovely lady with the wonderful sense of humor that I enjoyed speaking with while waiting in the phamacy line at Kaiser tonight. Boy is that wordy!!! I had hoped to catch you on the way out but you finished before me.
My prescription pick up had a time consuming snafu. Just my luck. I really wanted to speak with you some more and take in your beautiful smile. I'm a little shy at first and I wish I had been a little more assertive tonight. Well, I doubt you will see this but if you do, I hope to hear back from you!:)
We need to have a serious discussion about Flash Gordon! I've had incredible luck so far today so let's hope it continues.

Miss Cindy Pham - m4w (san jose east)

2008-11-22T23:53:44-08:00

Oh ive heard all about you....your Vietnamese, you work at a nursing home, your so cute adn pretty, and you love sex. Well I want to see you soon and well get back to me. You live and work over near Tully and King rd. Oh I wait for you.

All I want is a missed connection - m4w (walnut creek) 26yr

2008-11-22T23:53:32-08:00

All I've ever wanted was a missed connection. I'd do anything for a missed connection.

Girl walking with boyfriend - we both looked over our shoulders - m4w (castro / upper market) 25yr

2008-11-22T23:46:36-08:00

I was on the phone walking up church street towards duboce to catch the N at around 10pm. you were with what looked like your boyfriend. We both locked eyes for a second and then we both immediately looked over our shoulders after we had walked by. Then about 10 seconds later we both looked back again. Did you know me or was there something else?

RE:Dear Barista: - w4m - (san jose downtown)

2008-11-22T23:43:31-08:00

How vauge. Tell us which coffee house at least.

P.S. I'm convinced it's part of a barista's job to look interested in you, kinda like a hooters waitress.

ZYDECO-ONE DANCE WITH YOU-I WANTED MORE-I LOST YOU - m4w (palo alto) 51yr

2008-11-22T23:41:36-08:00

I danced with you one time at The Zydeco party tonight and then I lost you. You were with a group friends. So was I. How can I find you again?

I saw myself at Costco today... - w4m (san jose downtown)

2008-11-22T23:38:45-08:00

and thought how awesome I am, for the first time! wow, that's all i need damnit, is my own connection. If i can connect with myself like that, then all the tigers out here, will fall to their knee's. Having confidence and a stride that says, I AM AWESOME, is the best!!!

Looking for Curtis... - w4m (san jose south)

2008-11-22T23:34:23-08:00

I met you (Curtis) about 3 to 5 years ago, I can't remember exactly when or where, but I was with my cousin and you were with a friend of yours. You lived at the Avalon Apartments off of Blossom Hill near Santa Teresa. Really sweet and very handsome! Caucasian, tall, skinny, you like basketball, and I think you have a tattoo on your arm (not exactly sure of what). You're no younger then 23 and no older then 28. I remember one day I came over to your place and brought over a TON of scary movies and never returned home with them, you still have them! Last I heard you moved to Los Banos but hopefully you're still in SJ! Just curious to see how you're doing, what you're up to, and where you are in life. If you, or anyone that knows Curtis, happen to see this posting, shoot me back with an e-mail. Would love to hang out and grab some coffee, possibly catch up?

Monday night at DC in and out burger (daly city)

2008-11-22T23:32:19-08:00

there was a spark ... should have said hi; hopefully we have a second chance at a first impression.

the belv friday night - w4m (santa rosa) 24yr

2008-11-22T23:30:50-08:00

i was the tall blonde wearing white. you were the gorgeous boy working security. you really should have talked to me.

Pretty young lady with mom at Lucky`s - m4w (millbrae) 38yr

2008-11-22T23:29:24-08:00

You were the extremely pretty young lady withyour mom at the RedBox movie rental in Lucky`s this evening around 9pm. I cant stop thinking about you and how sexy you were. I was conversing with you and your mom about the movies. I havent seen many, but would enjoy watching them with you.

Two Dogs at IGA - m4m (mission district) 33yr

2008-11-22T23:25:54-08:00

Around 11pm I was behind you in line at the check-out line at Delano's IGA as you were buying dog food. I gathered up the courage to blurt out "nice dogs" as you were walking your two boxers(?) through the parking lot, but couldn't think of anything else to say. You're extremely cute and look like a really nice guy. Next time I see you at the store I'll try to be less shy.

I HAVE A CRUSH ON PAULA IN PITTSBURG - m4w (pittsburg / antioch)

2008-11-22T23:25:23-08:00

YOUR DAUGHTER NAME IS NISHA AND SON'S NAME IS MELVIN JUNIOR. WHEN I SEE YOU I CAN'T HELP BUT TO WANT YOU!

Amazing Head of Hair at Under One Roof - m4m (castro / upper market) 44yr

2008-11-22T23:22:07-08:00

I asked if all of that beautiful hair was real. (That's called being too tongue-tied to say anything cool.) Thought you were really stunning and would love to buy you a cup of coffee. You were looking at some campy magnets and a chair. Drop a note.

I went shopping for Fuck Me heels - m4w (palo alto) 27yr

2008-11-22T23:20:56-08:00

Mind you, they were for my lover, friend, and confidant, all rolled into one gorgeous, feisty pixie of a woman who told me she could use a boost while standing at the dais, delivering an address to a full house. So, to all the amorous CL perverts out there, please refrain from emailing me with graphic descriptions of how you want to fuck me while I wear them, OK? Sheesh.

I was alone this Fourth of July, so I hopped on my bicycle and hit the Stanford Shopping Center, figuring there must be a special Fuck Me heels department in Needless Markup, or one of those other upscale dumps for people with more money than brains (that excludes me of course, as it�s patently obvious I have neither).

I hit the top of the escalator at NM and was met by a guy carefully eyeing whether I was NM material or not. Either that or he had ideas about how he�d dress me, because it appeared he was undressing me, until he addressed me, that is.

Granted, a guy wearing river sandals, ripped shorts and a t-shirt from a 1970 Grateful Dead concert doesn�t exactly look like the NM type, but when Grover T Salesman asked me if he could help me in a way that made the word help sound like it had at least 3 or 4 syllables, as in �May I he�ell�..lll....pppp you?�, I quickly went on the offensive.

�Sure, where are the auto parts?� I asked.

�Sir, we don�t carry auto parts�, Grover responded, again with way too many syllables for his own good.

�OK then, skip the auto parts. Where do you keep the Fuck Me heels?�

�Excuuuuuuse me? This is NM and we do not carry thooossse sorts of things here.�

�What? Is there something wrong with Fuck Me heels? I mean, hey, I�m a red-blooded male, and when I see a woman with well defined calves and great legs wearing Fuck Me heels I just want to drop to my knees, start at the bottom and work my way up. You get my drift, Grover?�

�Sir, I�m afraid I�m going to have to ask you to leave the store, the other customers are clearly uncomfortable with your rather lewd and crass behavior.�

�She�s not�, I said, nodding towards the very pretty woman browsing the apparel department, who was clearly grinning ear to ear and chortling.

�SIR!�

�OK. OK, I�m leaving. So Grover, is there a place in the mall that you could recommend for Fuck Me heels? Surely you must wear a pair every now and then if you work in a place like this. They must fuck you over pretty good here.�

�OUT!�

Down the escalator I went, with the chuckling woman not far behind me. She called to me once I was outside, and offered to help me find the perfect heels. While we walked across to Nerdsturds she quizzed me on my tastes, and my motives. By coincidence, she also had size 6-1/2 feet, the exact same size as my delightfully delicious lover.

Things went a little smoother at Nerds. My new best friend from NM modeled every pair I asked to see. She offered advice, and her opinions. I settled on a very sexy red pair, and as we walked out of the store she asked me what I was going to do with my friend after I presented them to her.

As I walked her back to her car I told her honestly, and in great detail, of every move, every touch, and every place my lips would visit. �Lucky girl�, she said, laughing and smiling.

�Yes, and lucky me. Thanks!� I said as she drove away.

email me...

Re: I wish you could see my heart - w4m

2008-11-22T23:14:11-08:00

I hope that you find the courage to talk to this person. Your words are amazing in itself and if they were for me they would melt my heart. This is just a time where you have to leap and believe.

i miss you - w4m (sunset / parkside) 29yr

2008-11-22T23:12:43-08:00

I handed you a dozen roses, 11 real, 1 fake.
I said,
"I'll love you till the last one dies."
You gladly accepted them, but when you took them,
You said,
"One of these is fake!"
I said,
"Exactly. Thats because I will love you forever."

Post this in another city and the love of your life will call or text you.

You know who you are. I miss and love you.

Katie at SWIG on Friday - m4w

2008-11-22T23:01:43-08:00

I talked to you at the bar. I was the "hairy man", the wild man from the mountains:) You're really, really cute and I should've gotten your number, but your friends ushered you off a little too quickly. Respond to this so we can hang out.

white girl with ass on near market - m4w (near market)

2008-11-22T22:56:23-08:00

i saw you walking with your friends, we made eye contact. i watched you walk away. damn, nice ass

you in the felton new leaf deli...again! - m4w (santa cruz) 23yr

2008-11-22T22:49:38-08:00

You are in fact captivating. I'm too intimidaded by your beauty to ask for a number or even a name. Do you feel it too when our eyes meet?? These few months have been hell not knowing anything other than your work place. You are a beautiful mystery. I hope one day to get up my courage when I gaze into your eyes. And I love you green hat. You so unique. Sometimes I think maybe I only get sandwiches to see you.....yours are best. Maybe you will see this...please tell me you are single and unnatathced!!! I wanna take you out sometime.

We Were Both In Line At The Salvation Army - w4w (santa cruz) 61yr

2008-11-22T22:49:34-08:00

You & you son were sitting in front of me, & you kind of struck up a conversation with me, well, you & your son did...lol. He was cute too. I thought about giving you my card but I was gone already when I thought of it. If by chance you read this, please respond, as I think we could be at least good friends and who knows???
Linda

PEET'S in BELMONT - w4m (belmont) 35yr

2008-11-22T22:49:20-08:00

Saturday afternoon around 1pm you were sitting outside Peet's in Belmont (on what appeared to be a first "date"). You were wearing all black with a black baseball cap and sounded to be a personal trainer. The woman who came to meet you had a terrier mix dog on her lap. I was SO annoyed at her first date behavior that I wanted to scoot your chair over so that you would have been sitting with me and my friend instead.
She left her sunglasses on through your entire meeting, was a bore, had the nerve to bring her little dog with her, and then dissed the fact that you have a cat! I personally LOVE cats and was happy to overhear you defend the 100% awesomeness of a cat. ;)
Man...she blew it.
Well...I am not looking to date you, but if you would like to hang with a Peet's woman who knows how to make proper eye contact, has an interest (and a fascinating story of her own) in nutrition and working out and will love your cat sight unseen....
please respond...tell me what kind of vehicle you were driving. Yes, I heard you discuss that too!

Jim at Gold's leaving to see Twilight with Catherine with a "C" - m4m (SOMA / south beach)

2008-11-22T22:39:49-08:00

You were right there is a paucity of information about you on Google... so I'll either leave a connection up to fate or give it a nudge with this. Oh, and geeze you're cute. Hit me up if you got the notion.

we met here and got married 45yr

2008-11-22T22:38:24-08:00

it is so hard to wrap my brain around all of this,
you tried, I tried, you're sad, I'm sad, you are done.
Our differences that brought us together and made such an incredible love and friendship, tore us apart.
We were starting to get somewhere, then old patterns came back.
I had to react the way I did. I'm not sorry for that. I wanted to bring the realty of what had to be, I knew if we could make it, a break in the pattern was necessary, and that killed us,
I am sorry I hurt you, it was not ever what I wanted to do, but hurt was a byproduct.
The chaos brought my sickness to the surface, and I have a journey in front of me.
I have nothing, feel so empty, but all I miss is you. I wish I could just have you in my arms.
All I can do is wish you the best, you deserve happiness. You will be in my heart.

I know I said no communication, but I would like to hear you, call if you want.

you were in Fremont... - m4w (fremont / union city / newark) 31yr

2008-11-22T22:37:41-08:00

Hi,
it was really nice running into you tonight in the Salaang pass Restaurant in Fremont, out of no where I looked up and there you were, beautiful, i can't even begin to describe. until now i never understood the meaning of the term " and the time stopped" but it really did for me, tonight, and you smiled. it was like a sunrise in the middle of the night. i can't believe myself, i had to get up and walk to the bathroom just to make sure it was you. and yes it was, i have so much to tell you. so much to hear from you. please write me back. i have no other way of contacting you, this is the last chance, i have no other way...please.:(

You're as cold as Ice! Someday you're gonna pay the price... - m4w (fremont / union city / newark)

2008-11-22T22:37:39-08:00

Listen to the song

RE: Are you thinking of me? - w4m - m4w

2008-11-22T22:37:26-08:00

Well I am not sure who this is but if this were the person I think it is then the answer is. YES and I wish you would do things to me.

in and out - m4w (monday 9pm) 26yr

2008-11-22T22:34:25-08:00

you were wearing an I love NY shirt.
I was wearing a smile and intrigue.

wished i had said hello; is there a chance that it may be?

Hey 'Anachronistically challenged" guy - w4m (mission district) 26yr

2008-11-22T22:15:37-08:00

Hey man, you lit my friends cigarette with a grandpa lighter with a vintage camera tied to your hand and you gave us a ride in your crazy citroen in April.

Where did you go??? Haven't seen your car in MONTHS!

Photo's, the weather underground, and prop 8 - m4w (berkeley north / hills) 33yr

2008-11-22T22:08:12-08:00

I talked with you for a while tonight at work, I enjoyed it very much. Wish we could have talked more. I have a strict policy of not asking customers out. Not that you would have even said yes. Even if you're not interested in me that way that's cool too, I'd like to have another "cool" friend.

Peace,
Jon

CAR SHOW(SUBARU'S) - m4w (SAC) 54yr

2008-11-22T22:06:09-08:00

YOU TOLD ME ALL ABOUT THE CAR'S AND I TOLD YOU I WOULD GO RENT ONE... JUST THOUGHT YOU WERE VERY BEAUTIFUL !!!! MY NAME IS MIKE,THE TWO MIKE'S !!!

Pete and Tina I dont have your phone nunber (albany / el cerrito) 49yr

2008-11-22T21:54:15-08:00

please call and leave number. Your sandwich pal Ken.

My gym crush - w4m

2008-11-22T21:49:30-08:00

I go to 24 hr fitness on Church and Market the guy im intrigued by is big latin looking and honestly too hot to be single. I was vague in my first post (must remember to not drink wine). Good luck to all on missed connection.

Waitress at Uva - m4w (napa county) 29yr

2008-11-22T21:44:25-08:00

Beautiful waitress named Chelsea at Uva Trattoira last night. Your smile made my night. What is your story?

Are you thinking of me? - w4m

2008-11-22T21:40:21-08:00

Do you? Do I make you smile? I never told you I fantasize.
Yes that is a shocker. Don't miss me too much. I'm missing you
right now...way too much for my own good. I want to do things
to you. Guess who?

24hr gym YOU were in BLACK shorts/top around noon - m4m (berkeley) 36yr

2008-11-22T21:34:04-08:00

we knodded to one another at the gym, def my type of dude if you need a Dl JO bj bud, let me know>

to the girl in the gray mustang on 580 west - m4w

2008-11-22T21:22:05-08:00

I was riding my motorcycle when you came racing up from behind:
I moved over for you to fly by, as you did, you gave me the cutiest smile and I had to return the favor. we both exited in Emeryville on Saturday morning around 9:30....

w girly, between me and he, back then - w4w 34yr

2008-11-22T21:19:18-08:00

i don't like the last chapter.
i have more, you have more, let's do it some more

Stephanie!! - m4w

2008-11-22T21:18:54-08:00

yikes.

You in the Blue Shorts on Baker Beach today - m4m (laurel hts / presidio) 43yr

2008-11-22T21:11:25-08:00

If you ever check Craig's List I enjoyed seeing you today. You were wearing blue shorts but got naked and walked down and stood in the waves. I had a hard time concentrating on my reading watching you. I hope I didn't scare you but we gave a thumbs up for drinking Budweiser. I'm sorry I had to go but I live around Hayes Valley and it was getting cold and I had a long trek back home.

REI - w4w (berkeley)

2008-11-22T20:50:46-08:00

its been a while since i have seen you in the store, you must be a student, you had helped in me in the "life is good section", i think it is your favorite department although you did help me with a leatherman and i see you usually behind the sunglass counter. i dont know your name but you almost always have a cap on and some carharts and you always seem to be in a good mood. thanks for being awesome! you have been someone i looked forward to seeing everytime i went in there and by the way i think YOU are gorgeous!

7-11 at about 7:30? - m4w (napa county) 30yr

2008-11-22T20:42:08-08:00

You were walking out of 7-11 and got into your truck with georgia plates. You were very cute.

outside Macy's downtown.....Sat. PM - m4m (downtown / civic / van ness)

2008-11-22T20:21:49-08:00

Man smoking outside Macy's downtown, O'Farrell St. side, mid-afternoon;I was standing near you you while you were on break smoking, near the cats window. Me: wearing green jacket, glasses, our eyes met. Would be fun to hear from you.

POSTMAN FROM LAFAYETTE - m4m (lafayette / orinda / moraga)

2008-11-22T20:15:54-08:00

Jay,

If you or anyone who knows you, see this ad.

get in touch PLEASE. There is something we need to deal with.

24 hr lab anytime you want it...let me know - m4m (rohnert pk / cotati) 20yr

2008-11-22T20:07:28-08:00

There are always guys giving you mysterious looks in the 24 hr lab... im down to give some good head and get down in the bathroom real quick... if your down just let me know anytime you will be there and we can meet up real quick... you wont be disappointed....